As to the question of false framing and defamation...
When it comes to false framing, it does not matter that I love those whom I love... and it does not matter that they love me. If the stories and representations of me that they share are not the reality of the matters that I know (in significantly defamatory ways), then I cannot abide them, and I cannot abide a world that accepts them in place of the truth that might have been known, if it had a chance.
It is not right that I should. It is not right that anyone should.